Saturday, May 1, 2010

After All That

I tend to "photo-blog."  I take pictures.  I post the pictures and tell you about them, all the while recording the memory for myself and my children and maybe stirring a chuckle or a tear or a pondering moment in the process.  So how shall I blog about what happened to Lily on April 3rd?  There are no pictures of the event or the couple of days that followed it, but I've gone back and taken some shots which I hope will relate a portion of the whole drama with a bit of humor thrown in...

It was the Saturday between Good Friday and Easter Sunday. 
Leaves were budding.
I actually did take this picture that very morning
Things like this used to excite me.
Ok ok ok...they still do...



 FIVE DOZEN..no SIX DOZEN Easter eggs were boiling on the stove. 

Tim was doing odd jobs plus the never ending spring garage organizing. 

 I was getting ready to dig out the Easter baskets from the storage room.  Just as I was pulling my tangled hair back from my face and trying to figure out when a shower was going to fit into what little remained of my morning, the front door burst open and Lily came in screaming and holding the back of her head...

(The last thing you do at this point is grab a camera.  Even if you are a blogger.)

After getting her ice, watching her screams turn to lethargy, running to find Tim, finding Tim, coming back to the living room to find her asleep and unarousable on the floor and having the adreneline pumping experience of holding my in and out of consiousness 4 year old in the back seat while my 16 year old drove through "mall traffic" to get the the hospital (this is where I get the award folks),  running her myself into the exam room, standing by her side while she lay utterly still, arms crossed on her chest for the CAT scan (that's where it all got surreal) and then spending the quiet dark hours of the afternoon with Tim watching her sleep...

after all of that...

I began to notice a few things...


At one point in the afternoon I looked down... to see this! 


These fashion icons had THREE ...no FOUR things going for them:

1.  They were shoes.
2.  They were bright and showed up well in my peripheral vision as I was carrying Lily in my arms to the car.
3.  They were slip on.
4.  There were TWO (NOT a given in our garage!!!).  And I have two feet!!!
Perfect.

Of course they stuck out a tad in the sterile emergency room, though.  And they clashed with the (ahem) aqua sweatpants I had on.  Hey!  You don't plan for this to happen!  I was CLEANING remember!

Then, a little while later, I was brushing the damp hair back from Lily's forehead as she slept and as we awaited the results from the CAT scan and I noticed a...

yes...a scrunchie....right there on my hand. 
(Fashionistas....I will not be shamed...I still wear scrunchies on Saturday mornings.)

It had been several hours since the moment when first Lily burst through the front door, but there was the scrunchie STILL on my hand which I had been in the process of bringing up to my hair to tie back the tangles.

  Life interrupted.

I decided in a burst of sentimentality that I would leave it on my hand, just like that, just like I was about to grab my hair into a ponytail, until we went home that day.  At that point, I still expected to go home that day. And the scrunchie was my reminder.

As I was sighing at my sentimental pledge, Lily sat up in the hospital bed in a rush and threw up.  She urped all over herself, her hair, the bed...and my scrunchie.
I threw the scrunchie in the bag with her cut up clothes...yes they do cut the clothes off of you in the ER.
I am sentimental.
But I have my limits.

(Note:  this picture was taken after the scrunchie had been properly laundered.  All of these photos are reinactments.  My camera was home where it belonged.  I did not revomitize the scrunchie...you'll just have to imagine.)

Lily was soon transferred to Children's Hospital in St. Paul, where we had a five night, six day stay as she recovered from a skull fracture and a concussion.

When I went home for a couple of days later, I noticed this on the dryer:
It must have come home in a bag.  It was a reminder to thank the Lord that her neck wasn't broken and her injuries were recoverable.  Thank You!


And it turns out that leaving six dozen eggs in a hot water bath all day
(thankfully Tim remembered to turn the burner off as he followed us a few minutes later) results in perfectly done boiled eggs....
which we never did dye....
or eat for that matter...
but they were perfectly cooked...
not a bit green!
Who knew?

So that's the recap.  I took a few pictures on days 5 and 6 that I'll post soon.  Lily is doing fine now and sporting a cute new hairdo which she loves to show people and which is easy to fix and comb out.  She is back to preschool and will be restored to full activity in a few weeks!

We want to say thanks to all who prayed, brought meals and gifts, carpooled, visited and generally supported us.  And a grateful, humble thank you to the Lord for letting us have Lily home and well.
Others have walked a darker path, and we don't forget that, not for a minute.

Monday, March 29, 2010

Princessing First: Epcot Day 1

You may not think of the word "princessing" in the title of this post as being a legitimate verb.  After all of the work it took to make this princess event happen, I can assure you...princessing is very much in the predicate category!

We had a dream...at least I did.  My dream was to spend a day at Epcot, strolling around the lake in the warm sunshine, perusing the different shops, tasting the cuisines of many countries and generally taking an easy break from the hyped up Disney jazz, as well as our effort to carry our food in and NOT buy treats.  Epcot was going to be the exception.  I had my wallet ready. It was a lovely plan.  The first wrench in my scheme was when I couldn't get a character breakfast reservation with the princesses in the castle at Magic Kingdom, but could only get one at the Norwegian Hall in Epcot.  This meant that our day at Epcot was going to have to include meeting lots of characters...mostly princesses.  But that was ok.  It would be something for Lily to appreciate since she would probably grow bored with our many-cultural meanderings. 



(Note....please remind me never to stand like this for a picture again.  Yikes.)

Wrench number two was the weather!  It began to rain as we waited to get into the park....
just a sprinkle at first, but it was a preamble to the deluge to come.

  Our brunch with the princesses was at 10:40, which meant that we had get to our target ride (California Soarin') and a couple of others before that. 

 So we were first in line.  We were big on that.  Ok...I was.  I made everybody else be too. 

 All went quite well during the morning, now that I think about it.  We rode "California" (loved it) and got fast passes for later, did "Turtle Talk with Crush" ( from Finding Nemo) and headed to Norway with Lily in all her princess attire.


We were first in (a long) line here, as well...good thing too, because each "princess" got to meet Belle BEFORE her party got seated and served.  We were hungry and damp.  It was good to be first!



Having got the idea of character greetings the previous day, Lily was finally able to relax and enjoy the encounter.

It helped that Lily was decked out in royal garb herself....


I think she felt a lot more respected.
And did I mention we were first?
Can you imagine doing this 100 times?
Six times a day?
More on that later.




The Royal Family


We probably got the last reservation available for this time slot, which was brunch (cheaper than lunch or dinner).  Because of that, we were back in a corner by a staff only door, but it ended up being a great thing...because guess what!  We were FIRST to be greeted by the princesses as they entered (ok technically second because there was one table closer to the door than we were)!  That meant we were free to be done when we wanted, and we didn't have to wait for the princesses to get to us.

A note about God (keeping you on your spiritual toes!):  Look, I know there are real problems and tragedies abounding in the lives of many.  God is present in those big things.  I don't want to ingore that.  But I want to also attest and thank Him for the little gifts and blessings He bestowed on us during our week.  It happened all week long...I'd have a plan and He'd provide a better one.  This breakfast was one small example...I was stressed out that it wasn't in the castle, that we would get a "bad" table, that we wouldn't get our money's worth, etc. etc...and it ended up
working out better than I
 could have ever planned. 

He is present in the little things as well as the big.



First we got to go through the "cold foods buffet."  There were berries, yogurts, toppings, smoked salmon and other Scandinavian preserves, pastries...

Lily ate 50 raspberries.  I'm sure the person refilling the buffet wondered where they all went in the first five minutes of the buffet being open.  I can answer that.



Aurora (Sleeping Beauty)



Cinderella
(same exact person as at Magic Kingdom the day before!..Maybe it's the real Cinderella.)


This was a forced hug.  I made Katie do it.  Just so you know.



Katie:  "This chick is really strange..."


Snow White



Finally!  Lily smiles!


And the most exciting of all!  Ariel!
Lily:  "Oh she's so pretty.  I wish she was in Minnesota."



Alas...all things end. (Smile).  Lily did a quick wardrobe change and had a brief sit on the fancy chair...and we were off for more Epcot adventures!

Lily's comment upon looking at this post as I was finishing:
"I approve."